Wednesday, August 6, 2008

Hyperdunk Commercials

Nike Hyperdunk Commercial- These are pretty funny



See The Rest of them. Hit the link!!





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Grown Man Crib: All Black Playing Cards



Why Not? Good if you have black coffee table. Small cost for the reaction. $16. Cop Here.

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Grown Man Crib: Step up your Place. DNA Artwork



Looking for an interesting way to spice up your place. This is great way to add a personal touch. DNA 11 will take a print of anyone's lip print and make it into a piece of art. Cop it here. Runs about $300.

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Song of the Week



I am really feeling this song right here. Reminds me of Lauren Hill. Jazmine Sullivan has been writing hits for other people, so I guess now is her time to shine. Here is also a clip of her at age 11 performng at the Apollo.

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Adidas BW Army Low & Mid



Adidas BW Army Clean. I don't have to say much. Hit up your local Adidas Store- ASAP.

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BluWash



Now I know a member of the G4 Crew (No names) that believes it is a sin to wash his jeans, because he doesn't want to mess up the color or quality. But at last a way to wash your $250 jeans with no worries. Bluwash- runs about $18, but well worth it. Cop it here.

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Wednesday, July 30, 2008

How to Pronounce Designer Names Tutorial

Found this Tutorial online. Thought it would be great for all of you who go to the high-end stores and dont want to get laughed at behind your back by that beautiful sales associate.


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Wednesday, July 9, 2008

T.I. feat Beenie Man - Im serious


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Monday, June 23, 2008

Petey Green; How to Eat a Watermelon

This guy was actually a civil rights activist. He was in prison and went on to be a huge radio & tv personality in DC. There is a movie out called "Talk to Me" about his life starring Don Cheadle (see clip below)




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Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Gentlmen's Game: The Picnic


Picnic are a very touchy subject for me. I have been asked to do picnics before, but the though of me sitting on grass in my premium denim or getting dirt on my Jordans makes me cringe. But at last, I have come to realize picnics are almost mandatory in dating "neo-soul women" (see next week’s post how to bag a neo-soul chick) or women who own dogs. If you’re going to do it you might as well do it in style. The upside to picnics is they are an inexpensive way to rack up the cool points. It’s the summer so whether you’re in DC or NYC there is plenty of public places with great scenery to choose from. If you want to keep it safe- ask her what she likes. (Is it me are do all educated Black women love guacamole, maybe it is a new aphrodisiac- so be sure to throw that in there). Be creative, I don’t think store bought fried chicken will impress her. Try fresh fruits and champagne. There are all sorts of sleek picnic basket out there. My personal favorite is in picture. It runs about $200. (cop here) The trunk comes with two wine glasses, two melamine plates, cutlery, a corkscrew, two cotton napkins and salt and pepper shakers. It has a fold out table attached with it is well. And fellas remember “Life is a gentlemen’s game!!”

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Young Chris- Never Die




Oddly enough I am feeling this record

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Backyard Outdoor Theater System




Summer is here and if you want to impress your friends-This is crazy. It is a weatherproof Backyard Outdoor Theater System by Frontgate. It comes with 80 watt speakers, 12' movies screen, and projector. (cop here) It will you you about 3g's. I don't recommend throwing on BootyTalk 76, the neighbors kids may be playing in their backyard. This is great for outdoor parties and BBQs- or throw Love Jones on and set out a blanket. Cost:$3,000 Getting busy in your backyard: Priceless!!

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Friday, June 13, 2008

Lines that in retrospect were sort of corny, but work...

Me getting my text message game on smash like Kwame Kilpatrick.

Me:I am going to save your name in my phone on speed dail under "F".
Her: But my name starts with an "L"
Me: F is for future, and I see a bright one with you in it.

(I repeat do not use that one)

Me & C-gran in Georgetown a couple weeks ago while a fly older women walks by:

Me:"You're the reason why my mother told me to study hard and go to school. So one day i can have a georgous women in my life just like you."
Her: Your mom is a smart women.
Me: I think we should do lunch...
Her: Sure give me a call...

C-Gran: HOW the f@#$ did that line work!!
Me: Shit, I am just as surprised as you are..

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Another one:
Her: I am not sure what I want to do with my life.
Me: You have to step out of your comfort zone, try new things, do things you wouldn't normally do. This way you build confidence in yourself. The only way to do that is by not being scared to try new things.
Her: Like what?
Me: Like sleeping with me for example

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Grown Man Crib: Vintage Phone




Gentlemen, there is nothing that turns a women on more than a well-furnished apartment (except for the "Duo"- but I'll save that for next weeks blog). So if you are looking for an inexpensive way to add a little bit a flair to your place, get one of these vintage replica phones. My personal two favorites are the replica of a London phone booth, and the replica of a NYC payphone. For under $200 dollars it makes a great addition to any place, and a great talking piece to break the ice. I personally being the fly dude I am would probally go with a more vintage look. There is a very big selection to choose from- you can cop it from here .

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Excerpts from The Best Dressed Intern- The Date With A Stranger


The reason my friends call me the “Black George Costanza”, is because funny shit happens to me that wouldn’t happen to anyone else. I couldn't make it up if I wanted to.

This is a story my friends love to bring up.

One day, a couple years ago I was in the mall doing what I do best- sneaker shopping. As I am passing by Arden B (they always have bad women working in there) I see this tall slim chick. She has pretty unique look; chinky eyes, and strong defines lines on her face. You couldn't tell where she was from Black, Chinese, Dominican, Cuban or Arabian. Now anyone that knows me knows I am great with faces. I can remember someone’s face I went to pre-k with. I am thinking to myself that she looks like my man's, Bradley's cousin Nicole. So I walk in and say "what's good long time no see." She replies "I know it’s been years. WOW!!" Now as she is saying "wow" it isn’t a regular "wow". It is one of those "shit you look a lot better than I remember you wow."
She is smiling dead in my face now. I look at my watch it is about 8, and the mall closes at nine and honestly I don’t like to shop rushed, I recommend that we get together sometime, she tells me she gets off at nine. ( I remember this day clear as yesterday because it was the first time I had ever seen Adidas Rod Lavers in leather instead of mesh- I was so excited I bought the new pair and put them on, and left my old pair right in the middle of the store). So I meet back at Arden B at nine, she says there is a lounge that has poetry night we should go to. Can this day get any better? First new Rod Lavers, and now I stumble upon not just any poetry night, but "Erotic Poetry Night" (I can't make this shit up!!)

So we grab a table, and sitting at the tables next to us are two hot lesbians kissing each other lightly (sweet!!). At this point the truth is I was still pretty new to drinking and barely drank unless on dates. She orders an Incredible Hulk, I tell the waiter I’ll have the same. The conversation is minimal, as we are listening to the erotic poetry (imagine Maya Angelou meet Girl 6). After 3 Incredible Hulks apiece, listening to a couple poets, and sneaking glances at to two young ladies at the next table kissing Nicole nods she is ready to go. So we decide her place is the next move.

What a great night, but of course this wouldn't be a Scottward “B.G.C” story if something crazy didn’t happen. We are on the couch (of course she changed into a wife beater and sweats). We start kissing and she says to me "I always wanted to talk to you in high school, but you dated Michelle." As my hands are reaching to take off her bra, I realize I didn’t go to high school with Nicole, and I never dated a girl named Michelle- EVER!!

I sobered up quick- Is her name Nicole??!! But even crazier, has she confused me for some high school crush!! I start to backtrack to the beginning of the night. We never said each other’s name, I just automatically assumed she was Nicole. We are still on the couch kissing, she is kissing my neck, my chest..I know where this is going. Oh boy!! Now do I tell her I am not who she thinks I am?? By now she is tugging on my belt, and I whisper lightly "we didn’t go to highschool together" She is undoing the zipper. I am thinking what the fuck should I do. Part of me just want to be quiet and see how this plays out. But the part of me my mother raised whispered again a little louder "we didn’t go to high school together" This time she heard me. She jumps up standing there topless and confused. I say "Shorty there may be some confusion, is your name Nicole" She says "yes". Then she asks me "Is your Kev?" Now I am standing there with my pants around my ankle, and we are just staring at each other dumbfounded and I say "no". She quickly puts on her shirt. I start to giggle. Sensing she didn’t find any humor in the situation I stopped. I told her "don’t worry I will see myself out."

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Dont forget to pull out...


Gentlemen, the number one rule is decoracting your apartment is find ways to make it look like it is bigger than it really is (that means not staking 50 nike sneaker boxes in your bedroom). This is a must have for those that like sleekness. At first glance it looks like a regular dresser but pulls out into a desk. Good buy at only $500. Cop it here.

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What I do, act more foolishly. More Louie V....


Louie V headband and gymset for those of us that one to stunt on the treadmill. I have to get this. lol. $300 for a headband and towel. Not to be used to wipe to her off after sex!! Cop it here.

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Wednesday, June 11, 2008

New Video From Nas - Be a N***er Too




and a Throwback Video from Nas
The World is Yours

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Thursday, June 5, 2008

N.E.R.D - Seeing Sounds Album



1. Intro/Time For Some Action
2. Everyone Nose (All the Girls Standing in the Line for the Bathroom)
3. Windows
4. Anti Matter
5. Spaz
6. Yeah You
7. Sooner or Later
8. Happy
9. Kill Joy
10. Love Bomb
11. You Know What
12. Laugh About It


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G4 Banger of the Week!!- Lloyg- Girls Around the World

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Welcome to The Non-Party Life : Recognize at the Smithsonian

For all you Hip-Hop heads that are looking for something to do while in DC during the daytime; check out the "RECOGNIZE! Hip Hop and Contemporary Portraiture"
Now through October 26, 2008

Which is an exhibit put together by six artists and one poet whose work is very unique because of how they have approached hip hop culture through the lens of portraiture, and, in combination, their contributions highlight its freshness and essence.

The exhibit is located at the Smithsonian's National Portrait Gallery located at 8th and F Streets NW, Washington, DC. Good Thing is admission is FREE. Museum Hours are 11:30am- 7:00pm daily, so check it out. You can take pictures of select portraits but the experience is amazing. If you want more information about the exhibit go to http://www.npg.si.edu/exhibit/recognize/.

by C-Gran aka Both Feet Out The Game

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Wednesday, June 4, 2008

Throwback Video of the Week- Total, Lil Kim, Foxy Brown, Da Brat - No One Else


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Tuesday, June 3, 2008

Grown Man Crib- Sydney Lounge Chair













Looking to revamp the living room on a budget. Order two of these, and place one on each side of your couch. Or instead of spending a grip on a couch set, get two of these and a love seat at a discount furniture store. Gentlemen, make her feel comfortable. Tell her to kick her feet up on one of these. Oddly enough when women are laying down, as opposed to sitting up the convo becomes much better!! Cop here for only $250- You can't beat that!!

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LOL- this kid is gansta!!

This son slaps his mom on national TV. This kid is amazing.

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The Fresh Bite Mark Story

So one of my best friends calls me to tell me this story....

"Scott, whats popping? You wouldn't believe what happened last night. This chick has been trying get up with me for the past week or so, and I finally go by her spot to see her. Next thing you know I am in the room with her, and its about to jump off. I thought it was odd that she wouldn't take her t-shirt off, but whatever, so now we are having sex. The lights are off but there is light shining from her computer screen. So as I am having sex I start noticing bruises on her butt, legs and hips, she is trying pull her t-shirt down. I stop like what the fuck is this?? Because now I realize the bruises are all over her upper body.

She then tells me this: "I have been trying get u over here all week, and you always had an excuse. So I called someone else over here to have sex with, but he was wack, so to make it more exciting I told him to bite me HARD! He got a lil carried away."

My friend finishing story: "at this point I am thinking- this chick has bite marks all over her, and they are fresh bruises, like this dude was over here a day or so ago."

Me to my friend: "damn thats fucked up? So what did you do? Did you leave?"

My friend to me: "hell naw!! I started biting her dumb ass too!!!".

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Sneaky Steve Rodeo- On the fence about these..let me know

























So I was in Urban Outfitters in Miami and saw these. The brand is called Sneaky Steve. i never heard of them, but this sneaker is sort of fresh. The black is great for an alternative to wearing hard bottoms, and the white is great for the summer. They will run you about $120. Leave your thoughts. They didn't have my size so I ordered them online. Cop them here.

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Monday, March 10, 2008

Wall of Fame

Quote of the week: Conversation between my dude & this chick

My dude to chick: "Yo, I am coming over tonight at 9"
Chick: "I am getting back with my man, so I don't think you should come by"
My dude to chick: "If your pussy could talk, it would call you stupid"

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Friday, February 1, 2008

Chucks- 100th year Anniversary Edition---Fresh

Chuck Taylors-100 year Anniversary Edition..find them & sit on them until the weather gets better. FYI- I need to find these before C-Gran does, so please hit me asap if you see these.

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$40 Dollar Date- Sala Thai- G4 Certified

Now we have reviewed a few of the best $40 dates in DC. There was one spot that I had vowed never to reveal. But I owe it to the people. There are a lot of hungry women and DC, and a lot of guys trying to sleep with them. I want to apologize to the crew because I am going to give away our official spot to take chicks to. I also want to apologize to the 100 women reading this that have been to the restaurant with me. Women always want to feel like its “our” spot, and you can’t take another woman there. Meanwhile they go to the same spots with dudes all the time. I picked this spot because of the food, ambiance, and the low bill. I basically have the menu memorized. The spot is Sala Thai. There are a few in DC, but my favorite one is on U Street. If you want a little bit more privacy, hit the one in Dupont. The U Street location has a live jazz band on Thursday, Friday, & Saturday. Live jazz is a great touch, and good way to rack up cool points. Some good things to order are the:

1) Shrimp Tempura

2) Drunken Noodles w/ Chicken

3) Crispy Duck

4) If you are into sushi the actually have a fresh sushi bar there as well

The dishes run about $12-15. If you are going to be drinking liquor order the Flaming Volcano (it actually comes to table lit on fire). If you aren’t drinking, I am a fan of the Thai Iced Tea.

If you want dessert go with the fried bananas with coconut ice cream (apparently coconut ice-cream is a commodity because I can’t find it anywhere else.) Don’t worry fellas, one dessert is large enough to be shared by 2. So go to the ATM and take out two crisp 20 dollar bills. If you are really a cheap bastard and have no shame go to their website and print out this 10% off coupon.

FYI- They also deliver

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G4 Itinerary: This Weekend....



This weekend I am back out in DC to Shut it Down with Sayo at the 1837M 2008 Kick-Off. Open Bar til 9-12. Get advance tix here (www.esbymedia.com).If it got the boy Sayo name on it- make your weekend plans around it. Also it is the Mid-Atlantic Black Law Students Assoc. Convention in DC this weekend- in the classic works of the G4 Crew "Go In!!!" These law school chicks are drinkers...they will be getting their Dream Girls on- in other words " One Night Only..." I will be out there on my best behavior, which is beast mode. So if you see me whispering in someone's ear- please do not come over and say what's up. I repeat, please do not come over and say what's up!! A simple nod will do. Matter of fact do not say a thing to me, because I am focused. And when you see me "taking it out the park like Ken Griffey", please again do not say "leaving so soon". DJ KI on the turntables, he has been on fire as of lately. I will be in the building with C-Greez getting our Stockon & Malone on. Rahsaan & Max-undecided as of yet.

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Food For Thought: Porno, Punching Pimps & Pardon Me!! (click below for full story..funny!!)

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Wednesday, January 30, 2008

C-Gran No More Space in My Closet Pair # 224



Adidas Bob Marley’s Tuff Gong Records Tribute… Tuff Gong Pro Model sneakers, shout out to Major who I copped these exclusives from. I’m not a huge fan of shelltoes but these joints are a good look. Limited edition so don’t think they will be available just anywhere. Adidas is definitely doing something good here, Bob Marley’s 1st shoe if I’m not mistaken. Written by C-Gran

Cop these at
MAJOR DC
1426 Wisconsin Ave. NW
Washington, DC 20007
Georgetown, USA
TEL #: 202-625-6732

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CazalxDita: model 902-


I wear my sunglasses at night to spy on my girlfriend.....

Listen homie, Cazals is a G4 staple...Cazal is teaming up with Dita to re-release their most popular model the 902. Run you bout $750...this is grown man business. So if your paper ain't long step aside, because I will be bumping into you the club and spilling your drink. You know why? Because I can't see 5 feet in front of me, because I got my Cazals on in the club, and the boy C-Gran would tell me watch out, but he got his Cazals on, and Max is too busy looking at your girl's ass. So that leaves you with nothing but a long island ice tea on your shoes you copped from Aldos. In the words of a drunk Brooklyn dude "Pardon my Back!!" Get it Here.

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Gentlemen's Game; The Mean Lean


First and foremost, always remember dating is a gentleman's game.

So you need to stock up your liquor supply in the crib, your selection says a lot about who you are. You can try to pour her a glass of Henney, but she may catch on that you are trying to get her "there" quickly. (Plus Henney signifies "I drink this shit that taste like a boar's backwash just because I was told by urban culture this is what men drink". You want something like the stroke you are hoping to hit her with later..smooth, sweet, strong (and leaves you with no burning sensation. lol) My recommendation Belle de Brillet Pear Liqueur. One sip of this will have you sounding like Senator Clay Davis from The Wire "Shiiiiiiiittt".

So leave the 40 oz. for the savages. This is a blend of Brillet Cognac and the essence of Williams pears (Poires Williams) grown in the Alsace region of France. Twenty-two pounds of pears, picked at their peak of ripeness go into each bottle. In no time you will be tasting sweet nectar, and I am not talking about the drink!! Run you about $30.

Served Chilled or follow recipe below:

“G4 Nectar Hannibal Lecter”
(1 serving)
1 ½ ounces
Belle de Brillet pear-cognac
1 ounce Absolut Vanilla Vodka

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Gansta 101



So, your one of those who can't get enough of that gansta shit!! You listen to 50 Cent's "Many Men" every morning in the shower. And who knows what the fuck your capable of doing if they don't get your latte right at Starbucks. You know why..because you are gansta!! You keep it so real, that when that mother with the two children in the backseat driving that Volvo tried to cut in front of you- forget that she pointed and asked nicely- you curse her out anyway with your windows up..B#$%@!!

This is all you need right here: Gansta 101...contains American Gangster, Scarface, Casino, and Carlito's Way. The next time you're in Eyebar and one of those Washington Redskins' offensive linemen ask you to kindly move out of their way so they can get to the bar...think about what Joe Pesci from Casino would do.....(Caution: Do not let your inner Pesci get you hurt in the street!!)
You can pick this up at Amazon.com or try Best Buy.

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Thursday, January 24, 2008

Bill Clinton Falling Asleep During MLK Service.

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Turntable Watch


Turntable Watch...sort of fresh...great for the off days. However, I don't think it will get you much cool points during the senior staff meetings. Run you about $60. Get them here.

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Thursday, January 17, 2008

New MacBook Air

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This kids should be part of the G4 Crew!!

I thought G4 threw crazy parties...i respect this young boys swag...Corey Worthington threw one hell of a party when his parents were out. It attracted more than 500 people who terrorized the neighborhood. Not surprisingly, a large police smackdown and accompanying fines ensued. Surprisingly, Corey isn't sorry about nothin'.



http://view.break.com/433536 - Watch more free videos

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Wednesday, January 9, 2008

Lawd Help our People..lol

2 guys take a dead guy to cash his social security check!!

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Monday, January 7, 2008

Sneakerhead Alert!!

Sneakerhead Alert!! CitySports in NYC on 53rd and Lexington is moving locations. Everything in there is either 25% off, or buy 1 buy pair get 2nd pair for $20. Tell a friend. If you are in DC, check out the CitySports location out there, they always have the Buy 1 get 2nd pair for $20-$40 deal going on.

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For my Lo Heads...
Polo is dropping this collector's trunk containing 40 shirts, to celebrate it 40th anniversary. It is gonna run about $5,000. So you better go in and spit some game to the girl at the local Polo Store, because even with her discount this is going to put a dent in your pockets.

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Paster Mason Betha aka Murder Mase

The good word according to Pastor Betha. No Comment on him. But I think it is funny because it bugs my Grandmother out whenever she sees him, because we look alike.

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When With Wifey... Restaurant 2941 (if she ain't beating she ain't eating!!)


(WWW) When With Wifey Posting written by C Gran aka Out the Game aka Lover's Lane

If you ever want to experience dinner at a five star restaurant, 2941 in Falls Church is the place to be. The ambiance is sexy and chic, the service is unbelievable and the food is astounding. Now with that said, this is not a place for the new girl, this is definitely a spot for wifey. Please believe 2941 will have your pockets light for a second, in fact you may want to save this receipt for a tax-write off; this is not a place for the miserly. However, this is a place for those who want to rub shoulders with DC’s elite. Lastly, make sure you come with the correct gear, sophistication is a must.

www.2941.com

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woot.com

(woot.com)My homegirl just put me up on this site. Everyday they have a different item on sale at at great prices. They the item changes everyday, so you have to check often.

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Friday, January 4, 2008

Video of the Week: Estelle- Wait a Minite

This chick is popping in the UK. Think she just signed to John Legend's new label. Remember who put you up on it first.


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Absolut 100


I am not a huge fan of Vodka, but I have been hearing from some very credible lushes that Absolut 100 is definitely worth keeping in the crib. They tried to explain the difference in vodkas to me. Quite frankly, they all taste the same. And please don't tell me that good vodka doesn't give you a hang over argument!! Remember always drink responsibly.

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Dear Scottward..

Dear Scottward,

I need some advice. When women come over it is hard for me to get the conversation rolling and break the ice. We just sort of end up just sitting there watching a movie. It just gets pretty boring after a while. It’s not that I am not interesting; it is just hard to get the conversation flowing smoothly.

Thanks,

Quietly Watching

Dear Quietly Watching,

Long gone are the days of popping in a DVD and half way through the intro making your move (ahh the good ole' days). Women want to be stimulated in their minds before they are in their bodies .Also there seems to be a real bad trend going on, women want to talk and get to know you before they sleep with you!!

The thing you must remember is that when women come over they want to feel comfortable. So always have your place neat, smelling good and at a comfortable temperature. Remember if she doesn't take off her shoes, she isn't going to take off her pants (if you're lucky she will put back on her shoes). I say this to say, if she feels at home and relaxed being around you it is a definite plus. So you have to have interaction between the two of you (and I do not recommend asking her to play Madden with you).

Here are two great solutions. First, a must have for any gentlemen- "The Book of Questions" by Gregory Stock. It comes in two versions. The regular version has some pretty deep questions about life, morality, and challenges. The second one is about "Love & Sex". Each Book contains about 250 questions so it makes for a long, stimulating conversation. It is a great way for you to learn a little bit about each other. The "Love & Sex" edition is a great way to gauge her level of freakiness as well.
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Gentlemens Game's: Interior Design Tip: Floating Bookshelf


For those intellects who don't just want to pile their books in the corner, I have the perfect solution. The Floating Bookshelf. You can scoop this at the Container Store or even Barnes & Noble. It is pretty inexpensive way to keep your place neat, as well as highlight your personality by displaying the books you read.

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Thursday, January 3, 2008

Dear Scottward,

I am dating this girl and I really like her. However, she has a crazy ex-boyfriend. It's not that I am scared of him, but I have no time to deal with the drama that this situation may bring. Should I hold it against her that she used to date a psycho? Or should I just focus on our relationship and hope that he disappears?


Sincerely,

"Allergic to Crazy"

. Answer: This is a tough one. In a perfect world one's past relationships wouldn't be held against them - but in my world it unfortunately does. It can definitely be seen as a sign of poor decision making on her part. But give her the benefit of the doubt, because she must have some common sense to no longer be in the relationship.

I have had personal experiences like this, and while I may poke fun at this, it can be a very serious situation to be caught in. For example, I actually caught my first and only black eye over a chick. This dude straight sucker punched me when I wasn't looking!!

Anyway, here are some guidelines that may give you the answer to your question or at least clarify your situation:

Rule # 1: Don't think that you can go talk it out with him because these sorts of dudes are the worst. They don't think rationally or logically. He only cares about one thing, the possibility that someone else is sleeping with his girl. He knows personally how good the ass is, I mean he probably taught her all the nasty erotic shit she is doing to you now, and he knows it.

There is a new epidemic going around, that I like to call the "Dr. Phil Crisis". Dudes are more emotional than ever now. For certain guys, their girlfriend is the best thing they have going for them. Once they lose that, they snap, anding act crazy is a form of exerting and maintaining control over that person - because the other person in the relationship is forced to react.

Back in the day, a guy would only fight over their main girl - these days a dude will fight you over his jump-off. I read a news article about a guy that shot his girl's mom and grandmother before killing himself. Some dudes are crazy; they will kill you, her, and the dog.

Rule # 2: Properly gauge her involvement in the situation. Some women like the drama and would love nothing more for you to end up in a full out altercation so they can talk about it at the beauty salon on Saturday. I dated one girl whose ex lived on the same block. You think she would have told me.

Now if you really like her and the situation is serious recommend that she change her phone number (for the ex that calls 25 times a day). If she says something like, " I can't. I've had this number since freshman year", chances are she isn't serious about cutting ties with crazy-ex. If it's that serious, this is America - get a restraining order.

Ladies: Please, you cannot continue to let the crazy ex run off dudes in your life!! You are going to have to be proactive in stopping your madness.

So my advice to you, "Allergic to Crazy", let her go!! You have too much going on to have to look both ways in the street. Make those suggestions to her, but this is something that she is going to have to handle as a woman. It will make her a stronger and better person.

Find yourself a woman who makes better dating decisions. On a side note: If she feels scared or needs your help, then be a gentleman. Physical and emotional abuse is very confusing for many young women. Talk the situation over with her and come up with suggestions to diffusing the problem. For instance if she's scared offer to spend the night in her home. You may have to inform her sister, brother, mother, father or cousins (because they probably have no idea) to help you in dealing with him.

Be Safe,

Scottward

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Jay-Z & Apple....hustler's ambition

. And here is the rest of it.

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For Her: Two Great V-Day Gifts that are Crazy



OhMiBod makes two very interesting toys for her. The first is a vibrator that plugs into your iPod. It vibrates according to the beat and rhythm of the music coming out your iPod. So ladies close your eyes and play some Ol' Dirty Bastard, and let your imagination run wild.

The second is even crazier, it vibrates while your on phone. The cell signal triggers a unique 3 pattern vibrating sequence that lasts for the entire call. And here is the rest of it.

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Throwback Video of Week- Lisa Lisa & Cult Jam " I Wonder If I Take You Home"

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$40 Date- Skydome Lounge Doubletree Crystal City


Now you have probably walked past this spot 100 times on your way to Pentagon City Mall. The Doubletree hotel actually has a revolving restaurant and lounge on the top floor.
You don't have to be a guest to enjoy this spot, so just walk right in and take the elevator all the way up. It has one of the best views of the city, and makes a full 360 degrees rotation every hour. So don't worry that the rotating will make you dizzy, but the drinks will. Fairly priced, and they actually have a DJ that plays music. They also have a karaoke night.
Call in advance to see what's going on that night. They serve food until 11:00 pm and last call for drinks is at 1:00 am.

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Cop This.....Salamander Design Jump Seat Ottoman


For those like myself, that like a minimalistic feel to the room- here is a way to save space and make your living room seem larger. The Jump Seat Ottoman by Salamander Design opens to reveal a hide-away theater seat that can be used as an extra seat. The seat is padded for comfort and even has a cup holder and room for a game control. It comes in a variety of different colors and fabrics. And here is the rest of it.

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Custom Words Wall Paper..step up ur Crib Homie




Got a blank wall, and looking for something to really give the room a personal feel. Blik will custom make a wall decal saying for anywhere in your living space. This is really fly idea, especially if you really want to personalize a room with your own swag. So if there is a special motivational quote or Biggie verse that moves you, this is a great way to infuse personality into a bland room.

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Wednesday, January 2, 2008

Gucci Wing Tip Chuck Tailors vs. Creative Recreation Ponti



Same look for less

The great debate over appropriate nightlife footwear is in full force. The issue is for those civilized individuals like myself who wear hard bottom shoes all week to work; we don't want to wear hard bottoms to party. We want to wear something a bit more comfortable.
Still, the issue becomes getting into a place with a strict dress code. Now my cousin would argue that a strict dress code translates to "a black party", because at mixed crowd parties or those tough to get into parties, all that matters is if you are buying bottles. They could care less about your feet. Either way, if you are looking for an alternative to traditional hard bottom shoes, and want some comfort when going out, let me recommend these two choices. They both provide the same look, one is just a tad bit more expensive than the other.

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